Romance / Drama

Ugly Love

Book (2016) vs. Movie (2023) — dir. Michael Mohan

The Book
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The Movie
Ugly Love 2023 film dir. Michael Mohan official trailer

Starring Tate McRae, Jake Lacy — Netflix: 2023

AuthorColleen Hoover
Book Published2016
Film Released2023
DirectorMichael Mohan
Book Wins
⚠️ Contains spoilers – We discuss plot details and the ending. If you haven't read the book or seen the film yet, you may want to do that first.

The Story in Brief

Tate Collins moves in with her brother Corbin, a pilot, and meets his colleague Miles Archer in the hallway — drunk, devastated, and beautiful. Miles offers her a physical relationship with two rules: don't ask about the past, don't expect a future. Tate agrees, knowing it will hurt her, and spends the novel discovering exactly how much and why.

Colleen Hoover tells the story in alternating chapters: present-day Tate in first person, past-tense Miles in second person, moving toward the catastrophe that broke him six years earlier. The structure is the novel's engine — you accumulate context for Miles's damage while watching Tate fall for him without that context. Michael Mohan's 2023 Netflix adaptation stars Tate McRae (in her acting debut) and Jake Lacy. It's faithful, well-cast, and sincere.

The film earned mixed reviews and a modest Netflix audience. It's a competent adaptation of a novel whose most important quality — the slow, dual-timeline revelation of trauma — cannot be filmed without losing what makes it work.

Character In the Book In the Film
Tate Collins
Tate McRae
A nursing student who narrates the present timeline in first person, aware of her complicity in an arrangement she knows will damage her. McRae plays her slightly more swept away, less self-aware, but brings emotional directness to the role that earns the climax.
Miles Archer
Jake Lacy
A pilot whose past is revealed in second-person chapters, creating intimacy with a character defined by his refusal to be known. Lacy plays him older and less romantically idealized, communicating the wall without access to what's behind it — a harder task.
Corbin Collins
Lukas Gage
Tate's protective older brother and Miles's colleague, who forbids any romantic involvement between them. Gage brings humor and warmth to the role, providing the film's few moments of levity amid the emotional wreckage.
Rachel
Giovanna Lancellotti
Miles's first love in the flashback chapters, whose relationship with him ends in the tragedy that defines his present. Lancellotti appears in the film's flashbacks, which are restructured as reveals rather than parallel timelines.

Key Differences

The dual timeline structure is flattened

Hoover's formal choice — alternating present-day Tate chapters with past-tense Miles chapters that move toward an obliquely signalled catastrophe — is the novel's engine. The reader experiences Miles's past slowly, accumulating context for who he is now, while simultaneously watching Tate fall for him without that context.

The film collapses the timelines into a more conventional structure, using flashbacks triggered by present-day events. This makes Miles's backstory a reveal rather than a parallel experience. The mechanism that makes the novel work does not survive the translation. You get the information; you don't get the architecture.

Miles's second-person narration cannot be filmed

Hoover writes Miles's past chapters in second person — "you are six years younger and everything is still possible" — which creates an unusual intimacy with a character who is defined by his refusal to be known. The second person implicates the reader in Miles's experience in a way that any film narration strategy cannot replicate.

The novel makes you inhabit the damage; the film makes you observe it. Lacy does what he can with physical restraint and visible hurt, but without the novel's access to Miles's interior voice, the performance can only show the wall, not what's behind it.

Jake Lacy's Miles is older and less romantic

Lacy plays Miles with physical restraint and visible hurt, but his casting is slightly older and less conventionally romantic than Hoover's Miles. Some readers found this wrong; others found it more honest. The film's Miles is less romantic fantasy, more damaged adult.

Both interpretations are defensible. The novel's is more readable. Lacy's performance is strong — he communicates the emotional unavailability without making Miles unwatchable — but the character loses some of the romantic appeal that makes Tate's choice to stay feel less like self-destruction.

Tate McRae's debut performance shifts the character

McRae — primarily a musician making her acting debut — brings an interesting quality of emotional directness to Tate. The novel's Tate is more interior, more aware of her own complicity in an arrangement she knows will hurt her. The film's Tate is slightly more swept away, less calculating about her own damage.

McRae's performance is more assured than many debut acting turns, and she earns the emotional climax. But the shift makes Tate feel less like an equal participant in the arrangement and more like a victim of Miles's emotional unavailability, which changes the story's moral texture.

The revelation arrives without its earned weight

The novel builds its central revelation — what happened to Miles six years ago — across the full reading experience, so when it arrives it carries the accumulated weight of every Miles chapter. The film delivers it more efficiently, in a single flashback sequence that explains everything at once.

The information is the same; the weight is not. Hoover's novels generally depend on this kind of slow build for their emotional payoffs, and compression is always a loss. The film's climax is sad; the novel's is devastating. That's the difference between telling and earning.

Should You Read First?

Yes — the novel's dual timeline and Miles's second-person chapters are what make it distinctive Colleen Hoover rather than generic romance. Read first and the film becomes a well-cast illustration of a story you've already fully experienced. Watch first and you'll get the plot and the performances but miss the mechanism that makes the story work.

The film is competent. The novel is structurally ambitious in a way that romance novels rarely are. If you're going to experience only one version, read the book. If you're going to experience both, read first — the film won't spoil the novel's formal pleasures, but the novel will make you understand what the film is missing.

The Verdict: The novel earns its emotional devastation through structure and voice; the film delivers the same beats without the architecture. Read the book for what makes it Colleen Hoover. Watch the film for Jake Lacy's restraint and Tate McRae's surprising debut — but know you're getting the plot without the poetry.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is the Ugly Love movie as emotional as the book?
No. The film delivers the same plot beats but lacks the dual-timeline structure and Miles's second-person narration that make the novel's emotional climax devastating. Jake Lacy and Tate McRae perform the hurt convincingly, but the architecture that earns it is missing.
Does the movie include Miles's backstory chapters?
Yes, but restructured. The film uses flashbacks rather than alternating timelines, which turns Miles's past into a reveal rather than a parallel experience. The novel's slow accumulation of context — what makes you understand him before Tate does — is compressed into exposition.
How is Jake Lacy as Miles compared to the book?
Lacy plays Miles older and less conventionally romantic than Hoover wrote him, which shifts the tone from romantic fantasy toward damaged realism. He communicates the emotional wall effectively, but without access to Miles's interior voice, the performance can only show the damage, not inhabit it.
Is Tate McRae good in her first acting role?
Yes. McRae brings emotional directness to Tate Collins, though her version is slightly more swept away than the novel's more self-aware protagonist. She earns the film's climactic scenes and holds her own opposite Lacy, which is more than many musician-turned-actors manage in a debut.
Should I read Ugly Love before watching the Netflix movie?
Absolutely. The novel's dual timeline and second-person narration are what make it distinctive Colleen Hoover rather than generic romance. Watch first and you'll get competent performances and the plot; read first and you'll understand why the story earned its reputation.